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Kristi Chase's avatar

I forgot to say that Ways of Seeing is one of the books that all right-thinking art students read when I was in art school in London 50 years ago. You have made me want to reread it and I can't find my copy. Thank you for the thoughtful essay.

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Elli Benaiah's avatar

Dear Naomi,

Your reflection lingers with me—it articulates something I’ve felt but hadn’t quite found the words for. You write with clarity, care, and a kind of grounded defiance that feels deeply needed.

You’re absolutely right: today’s food photography often sanctifies perfection. I remember preparing a portfolio of filled bagels some years ago. The food photographer crouched over each one with tweezers, adjusting every parsley leaf and drizzle of sauce until the image looked effortlessly casual. But of course, it was entirely orchestrated. Like buying designer jeans pre-ripped to appear worn—untouched by life, but selling the illusion of experience.

And now, as you know, we’ve entered a second wave: the cooking video. I’ve learned how the apps work. You can fake the sound of chopping, the hiss of steam, even the sizzle of garlic hitting the pan. It’s theatre. Nothing is real. And yet, I’ve surrendered to it too. If you want your first cookbook to be seen, you have to play along. Edit. Trim. Dramatize. Seduce.

What’s so troubling—so tragic—is not just the artificiality, but what it reveals about us. We’ve become fast food. We want everything instantly: beauty, pleasure, results. We’ve lost the joy of getting there—the physical, fragrant, messy process of cooking that demands presence, and rewards improvisation.

That’s why your purple yam supper moved me so deeply. It‘s imperfectly perfect. The sorrel chopped by instinct. The pairing of tart and sweet a matter of feel, not formula. It’s the kind of cooking that doesn’t just feed us—it restores us.

With admiration,

Elli

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